How I understand friendship

How I understand friendship

Friendships are important. They shape us in who we are, who we become. The people we surround ourselves with, we slowly seep to become.

Friendships helps us with our growth. They may be our inspiration, and our biggest supporters. They are there for us, no matter what is happening, what we are going through, if it is right, or wrong. They stick with us through everything. They stay at the sidelines, cheering the loudest, supporting us, cheering us on, through our hobbies, our passions, our talents.

Recognizing ourselves, through friendships,

Friends help us recognize ourselves. They make us realize things about ourselves, that we’ve never seen or knew about. They bring out certain bits about ourselves, whether that be good or bad. They help us see ourselves, and others, the world, through different lenses, their lenses. We see so much more, than we might’ve seen before.

A friendship, is a home

To me a friendship, is a home. Its a home you can always return to. Sit on a soft, comfortable chair, by the fireplace, with a mug of hot chocolate in your hand. Safe from the rain pattering on the outside windows, safe from any dangers of the world. A home full of warmth, and comfort. A home, that is filled with nothing but smiles, and cheery laughs.

A home, that has been built hand by hand, side my side, with the person you call your friend, the person you cherish moments with. A home, a home you know when you come back, it will always, be the same. Always, the ways of being, the ways of the placed furniture. Everything familiar, nothing changing. But us, the way we grow, the way we heal, the way we sprout in our dreams, our goals. Together,not alone, but by each others side.

Two open arms

Friendships are two open arms, you can always run into at the end of a long rough day. The arms always open, waiting, ready for you. You may not always be ready to lay in their arms, and spill everything of of your tongue. But they will always wait, and stay, awaiting the time, you will be ready. To stay in their arms, and let your thoughts sink, and consume the arms they lay in. The mind, slowly escaping the fog, of the thoughts that monster the crooks.

Friendships are like your own protective dog, ready to pounce on anyone who steps on territory you don’t feel comfortable with. Their ready to bite, to fight, for you. Their loyal, they stay by your side, like a dog, staying by you, through and with everyone. No matter how much people they have fight off, they continue,to guard you like your their your everything. Because you are, everyone matters, but when you are together, its just the two of you, and nothing else matters.

Friendships, can be in anyone

Friendships, can be lo, or high maintenance. But at the end of the day, you know you have them, ans they know they have you. They are what we thrive off, and they are the necessity to our life, our accomplishments, our happiness. They are, our everything. And can be in everyone, our parents, our siblings, our partners, our colleagues.

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